So sweet.

Finding Balance in a Digital World

I recognize the irony of sharing this with you digitally.  But there are some positives to living in a digital world,  I'm not an Anti-Digite.  (trying to reference Seinfeld there)

I just agree with the idea there needs to be a balance.

In addition to these checklists, I recommend a talk by Elder Bednar entitled, "Things as They Really Are".  I found this talk while I was feeling a little digitally overwhelmed and wanted some inspiring words to help me.  I love that about our leaders.  They know how to chide, lovingly.   It's like getting a swift kick in the butt and a pat on the head.  :)

10 Signs of Digital Overload 

1. Slipping away from activities with people to check e-mail or social networking sites.
   
2. Checking the same sites repeatedly within a short period of time.
   
3. Spending little time outside.
   
4. Finding it hard to complete a task such as writing a report without frequently breaking away to check e-mail or unrelated websites.
   
5. Spending little time in face-to-face interactions with friends.
   
6. Going online or using a digital device when you feel stressed or want to avoid an unpleasant task.
   
7. Family members spending most of their time at home in separate rooms interacting with screens.
   
8. Frequently using digital devices to entertain a child instead of talking, singing, playing, or reading with him or her.
   
9. Checking the computer first thing in the morning, or getting up during the night to use digital devices.
   
10. Spending long stretches of time surfing for content, often viewing content that is inappropriate or borderline.
    

10 Ways to Cut Back

1. Check and answer e-mail only once or twice a day, at scheduled times.
   
2. Use social networking sites only at scheduled times and for a set number of minutes.
   
3. Practice a “digital Sabbath”—setting aside one or two days each week to “unplug.”
   
4. Leave your cell phone in another room during time with family or friends.
   
5. Call instead of texting.
   
6. Invite children to help search the house for supplies that can be used in nondigital activities: children’s books, board games, art supplies, and equipment for outside play.
   
7. Organize a talent show, art show, or service project with family or friends.
   
8. Use Internet-blocking software to keep on task while working.
   
9. Limit recreational surfing; watch TV and videos selectively and intentionally.
   
10. Keep a gospel-centered perspective, using technology to uplift yourself and people around you.
    

“I raise an apostolic voice of warning about the potentially stifling, suffocating, suppressing, and constraining impact of some kinds of cyberspace interactions and experiences upon our souls. … I plead with you to beware of the sense-dulling and spiritually destructive influence of cyberspace technologies that are used to … promote degrading and evil purposes.”

Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Things as They Really Are,” Ensign, June 2010, 20.